I've officially kicked I to the curb. It's all about the we now. Except when he's in the room.
Boy, I can be so mean.
While talking to friends about what I did last night or over the weekend, it always begins with "We". Or in response to what my plans are for the holiday, I say, "We aren't spending it together. I'll be in Phoenix and he'll be here"
The we comes first.
But when he asks me things like what are the plans for the weekend, I play it safe and it starts off with, I.
He hates when I use the I and have no invitation to make it a we. This morning, he asked me what was up for the next couple of days.
I said, "I'm going to a museum party and then Sunday, I'm eating brunch with friends. What are you doing?"
Wrong answer, I.
When he speaks it's all about the we. Maybe I should get on board.