The other night while on the phone with Hotlanta, the conversation took an odd turn into one about sex.
And it wasn't phone sex. He was asking me if I thought that's what we would be doing when I get there. Huh? And then went further with it and discussed the parameters, risks, and results if we did or if we didn't do it.
I'm sorry but I don't need a conversation on whether we will do it or not, three days before said event if said event were to occur.
Am I wrong to think that should just be spontaneous? If the passion is there then the rest will take course?
Why all the strategic planning?
A friend of mine thinks it was very mature and smart of him to bring it up. Guess I've only been with immature idiots all this time. She thinks it shows that he cares and respects me and where this could lead.
Guess I care less.
I didn't know how to reply in the conversation. I was just about a lot 'uh huh' and 'okay' but really a lot of confusion and a wee bit turned off.
All I can think of now is: To do or not to do? That is the question.